The basic mantra is love. With that basic mantra, I give below 10 tips, that I follow every day:
1. I get up early to cook, if not my loving children and family will go without food.
2. I cook breakfast to the liking of each one of them, or else my loved ones will start the day without a good break fast of their choice.
3. I cook and pack lunch with love for my love, so that they eat with much ease and the food of their choice.
4. I treat my servants with love, so that my work at home and work is not disturbed, in turn my loved ones will not suffer.
5. I come back home during lunch time, to see my little one finish his lunch (if not I feed him) and get ready for his after school.
6. During my lunch break, I prepare some tiffin for my elder son, who would come back hungry, eagerly looking forward some tiffin of his liking. I am happy to hear from my husband / servant that he finishes the tiffin in a jiffy and enjoys.
7. During the break, I boil milk and keep it separately for each child, a cup of milk of their choice, so that they don't trouble my servant for this and that. They come back from school and drink the milk in a second and enjoys their drink.
8. I pre-plan the previous night itself, what to pack for their snacks boxes for different breaks, so that they look forward to having short eats at breaks. Always their break boxes are empty. I am happy to see empty boxes in the evening.
9. We all look forward to the evening to play together at home, sometimes riddles, sometimes football / cricket, carrom, snakes & ladders, etc. A joint time that we all look forward.
10. We talk on the day's happenings and eat our dinner early, so we have enough time to either watch our favorite program on TV or read bed time stories and go to sleep. My children loves to be on my lap while listening to stories / watching TV and they sleep. It is never tiring to do any work for such loveable children who expects nothing but our love, only love and unconditional love
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